Waiting To Meet Miss Perfect?

You must have been thinking you are a victim of bad luck and that’s the reason miss perfect hasn’t showed up yet. No you’re not but it must have been really tough since miss perfect hasn’t appeared in your life yet. Or have you decided that maybe Miss Perfect only exists on movie screens and not out here in the real world?


You’ve got it. She doesn’t exist anywhere except in your imagination and on movie screens.

Here’s the truth; the reason why miss perfect hasn’t appeared has nothing to do with luck, good or bad but everything to do with you and the fact that you haven’t found your balance hereby, is busy looking for a person that doesn’t exist.

There’s no way you can date with your eyes closed and with some impossible dream in your head. Here’s what will happen if you do – you’ll get so caught up in this whole exercise of dating that you forget to look for the qualities you seek!

Why are you so confident that any woman you have met wouldn’t give you what you wanted? What it that you want in the first place?

Honey, once you are sure of what you want, you will know exactly what to look for in your woman.

What are the qualities that you feel are obligatory in a person? What are the traits you are willing to make a compromise on? Have you thought about all these?

Remember, that nobody on this earth is perfect. Everybody has faults. Some are bigger faults, others are not. Some are faults you can overlook and some are faults that you wouldn’t overlook on your best day even if she was the most beautiful, most sexy woman on the planet.

Dear king, when you meet a woman, remember that however hard you try to impress others, you cannot control their thought processes. Instead, it’s far better to concentrate on your needs and desires, and how much of what you need would be fulfilled if you dated this woman.

(By: Ruth Dulac)
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